In Session Six you saw a video of a therapist and client engaging in a role-play. While this concept may still be difficult and uncomfortable for your clients, encourage them that role-play can be an important means in which to demonstrate effective assertiveness and communication within a safe environment where they can receive validation, encouragement and feedback.
Certain clients, however, may continue to hesitate in demonstrating their assertiveness. "I Messages" enable clients to identify areas that affect their ability to assert themselves, breaking down overwhelming situations into behaviors, feelings, and consequences.
The video on the following page depicts a client and therapist conducting a different example of a role-play. The therapist introduces the concept of Effective Assertiveness through use of the "I Message".
