When you talk to someone can be just as important as what you talk about. Your conversation may not be successful if your loved one is anxious, angry, or shut down. The message may be clear to you, but not to someone who is in a heightened emotional state.

Try to choose when you talk with your loved one. That way you will be more thoughtful about what you want to say and how you say it. When you are prepared for an important conversation, you may handle it better.

Select each title for some recommendations about when to talk to someone.